August 16th, 2010

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Not for it, mind you, but what's the real story?

Two gold wedding bands

         Some friends and I began a chat on the subject of marriage, which rapidly devolved into gay marriage and forms of polygamy (polygyny — a man with multiple wives; polyandry — a woman with multiple husbands; polyamory — an indeterminate mix of husbands and wives; and even line marriage — a form of group marriage in which the family unit continues to add new spouses of both sexes over time so that the marriage does not end). Someone posed the question, "How much of the world practices polygamy?" The answer surprised me, as it may you.

         A worldwide ethnographic survey of 849 human societies show 708 whose customs are polygynous (more than 1 wife), 4 polyandrous (more than 1 husband) and 137 monogamous. I am utterly unable to come up with a reference for this ethnographic survey and cannot vouch in any way for its accuracy. Hell, I can't prove it even took place. (708/849)*100 yields 83.39% polygamous societies. (4/849)*100 gives us 0.47% polyandrous, and (137/849)*100 leaves 16.13% monogamous.

         Perhaps more reliable is the wikipedia entry on Polygamy citing the Ethnographic Atlas Codebook. Of 1231 societies noted, 186 (14.78%) were monogamous. 453 (36.79%) had occasional polygyny, 588 (48.76%) had more frequent polygyny, and 4 (0.32%) had polyandry.

         The numbers are fairly close. It makes you wonder why the USA is so dead-set against a system that works throughout the world? But then…we're like that. 85% of the Nato military forces permit GLBT soldiers, we're part of the 15% that doesn't. I wonder what the stats are worldwide if you include Africa, Asia, and South America?

Polyamory logo: a Red heart overlaid with a black infinity symbol

         There is an awful lot of talk about the sanctity of marriage.

MONOGAMY AND THE MODERN WORLD "Should-be" monogamy never gained worldwide attention until the last few centuries. The should-be monogamy idea was not popular in previous generations, not until its strong uprising in the last 150 years or so. In fact, polygamy was still openly practiced in the last generation in non-western countries, and is today still practiced in modern societies, even though not so openly because of the outcry of the Western Feminism movement. How quickly the should-be monogamy concept has taken over, such that it makes polygamy appear sinful and wrong ever since the beginning.

         Now here's an article you may find interesting. I'm not precisely on all fours with it, but there's a good of information to be gleaned.

A cityscape afire Ruins at dawn

         I have at least one friend (that I know of) in a polyamorous relationship. I know more than one gay couple who would like to be married. I knew of (but have lost track of) two couples who bought a house together out in the country and who admitted to me that they were a "plural" marriage, whatever that is. I rather like the idea of line marriage...conserves capital, never ends, and makes it nearly impossible for children to be orphaned or without parents to raise them. Isn't that what families are for?

         I've often heard how if you allow gay marriage, you have to allow any marriage. I suppose that is the reductio ad absurdum. But just how is gay marriage going to destroy the fabric of society? I know the religious arguments about it being wrong, but what are the societal arguments? What will happen if we open the floodgates and admit other forms of marriage?

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Don't start on me!

This is funny. I am not knocking religion. I'm NOT. Don't say I am, because I'm NOT. GOT IT? I am, making fun (through the comic cetic) all of those people who don't bother to get the facts on any subject and leap directly to the conclusions they choose to believe.
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The Dictionary


Louderback's Lexikon

Ewww!         It's been rather a long time since I updated the ol' Lexikon. This word came to us in chat in the wee hours of the morning. A friend and I were discussing a mutual acquaintance who expressed the mental inability to watch a film in black in white… "They look so phony!"
Phobic Perfectionism phrase
The inability to perform an act because of criteria unmet. e.g. The inability to watch a television that is not HD, the inability to use desktop wallpaper that does not precisely match the resolution of your monitor. The inability to watch a film made before 2007 because the special effects are so unbelievable.

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Braille font

This sentence is in Braille.

Someone today sent me a Braille font. It a way I think it is kind of funny… braille for sighted people. You will have to actually download and install the SimBraille font to use it. The image above says "This sentence is in Braille". There is also an ASL (American Sign Language) font called Gallaudet after the University. That doesn't seem as odd as a visual representation of blind text, but it is still a tiny bit odd. I wondered if the gallaudet font is much used? I can see the Braille font being used as a teaching device, I may do that myself as a mode of refreshing my Braille skills (which have almost faded).

Anyone out there with some favorite off-the-beaten-path fonts?