I just learned that my boss lost her eldest son to a traffic accident last night. It's terrible. I actually wept over the whole thing. I've been through that. I'm overly emotional these days, but the loss of a child is intolerable. There is no real coping in any ultimate sense.Your life changes and that is that. Your life is changed, I should say.
Back at home. I only lasted about three hours at work. Reading a program for three hours trying to find a problem was too frustrating for me to deal with. COBOL is bad, HTML is worse, but trying to read Java is intolerable when you do it a letter at a time.